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In terms of your question Crone, booming bass is going to be tough to get out of a headset period. I mean there's only so much tiny speakers can do in comparison to 8-10 inch subs you're prolly used to listening to without headphones in. Also, in terms of blowing out ear buds, quit buying cheapys.
If you want a good high quality ear bud, that you're not going to destroy because you listen too loud, Ultimate Ears are an elite company that make some prosumer grade ear buds that will sit in ear, and blow your head off with sound. There's also Shure, anything E5 and up are generally good, but the E3s I'd stay away from. Marshall is coming out with, a pair of headphones that also have an inline mic and all of the neat little iPhone control clicks, that could be promising.
Basically in terms of audio quality, you get what you pay for. Everyone wants something for nothing, you're just not going to find it for audio stuff.