*yawn*

[clevergirl]

v.20

[Cecily]

I’m hanging out with that cute NB person tomorrow. Need advice on how to not blow that. Non-binary people are as confusing for me to understand as trans people were to society before the re-education camps.

[clevergirl]

I can't really give you terrific non smarty pants advice? Just be like, hey, hey! You! Yeah, you, uhhh, you!?

[Cecily]

I’ve already been awkwardly texting her every day since Wednesday. Need better advise please.

[DinoTriz2]

I’ve already been awkwardly texting her every day since Wednesday.

MICROAGGRESSION

[Cecily]

It’s so intentional, too, lol. I’d like to ask zem xer pronouns, but I’m afraid I’m gonna legit laugh if it’s one of the made up words.

[America]

buy it coffee (its good to show you are a provider, even in a token way) and after you ask what it wants tell the barista loudly "it will have a x"

[DinoTriz2]

I have a simple rule:

If I have to walk on eggshells when I'm around you, I'm not going to be friends with you.

I used to date a girl who didn't appreciate my sense of humor.

Dumped. Sorry, but I won't live that way.

For the record, the girl got angry because I joked that I wanted to have sex in a tub of beer.

I was being goofy...

[America]

I have a simple rule:

If I have to walk on eggshells when I'm around you, I'm not going to be friends with you.

I used to date a girl who didn't appreciate my sense of humor.

Dumped. Sorry, but I won't live that way.

For the record, the girl got angry because I joked that I wanted to have sex in a tub of beer.

I was being goofy...

that's different from disrespecting le pronouns. even tho i think nb is kinda gooftarded considering humon consciousness ackchyually is categorically bifurcated by E- or T-dominance. u gotta respect the tardation. beer tub jokes are okay though, she sounds crazy

[Cecily]

Lol. I swear if I hear “it” I’m gonna pass it my handcream and tell it to put the lotion on. Otherwise I wanna be as respectful as I can. Had good conversations so far. And I could probably learn a thing or two from zem.

[Cecily]

buy it coffee (its good to show you are a provider, even in a token way) and after you ask what it wants tell the barista loudly "it will have a x"

I laugh every time I read this. “It” just sounds sooo mean. I remember flipping my shit when someone would call me it in the past. Feels dehumanizing.

[America]

Lol. I swear if I hear “it” I’m gonna pass it my handcream and tell it to put the lotion on.

i think the main thing is to be smooth as possible about the enbie thing. like say "this one" and other kinda slick agendery stuff to third parties, and be comfortable with it. also if you can ask its pronouns kinda naturally you'll seem like a real cool n-word, like it's not awkward to ask pronouns (it's not)

[clevergirl]

i'm insane i just knocked out 4.5 miles like it was nuffin
i am liek a cyborg
my brain just givez ZERO FUKUEZ
i have been super depressed
tooo
it's just a matter of getting over that threshold
since i got out of suicide bin
i haven't done shit
notta
just sat on my ass since feb22
so
liek
36 days of not even rubbin it
if i had a personal trainur
to just beat me up every day
and kick my ass
i would be amazun

[clevergirl]

I am awake at 2:51 am for no fucking good reason. It is not my meds cuz i was sleeping like a baby when all I had was a dark room with a plastic safety cot that smelled like pee and one tiny rough plastic blanket that wasn't very warm at all.