Crashing when trying to connect to servers

[Magerin]

Anyone else having an endless stream of connection issues? I believe this falls outside of my ISP issue. I did a trace route to see where the problem happens... Here is what I got

Tracing route to login.eqemulator.net [144.121.19.169]
over a maximum of 30 hops:

1 <1 ms <1 ms <1 ms 192.168.1.1
2 <1 ms 1 ms <1 ms 192.168.10.1
3 18 ms 2 ms 8 ms 10.9.1.254
4 40 ms 36 ms 28 ms 98.163.60.1
5 32 ms 35 ms 40 ms wsip-98-163-56-49.ph.ph.cox.net [98.163.56.49]
6 * 41 ms 36 ms 70.169.79.61
7 32 ms * 32 ms 70.169.77.232
8 47 ms 40 ms 39 ms 100.120.100.136
9 102 ms * 116 ms ae20.cs2.lax112.us.zip.zayo.com [64.125.25.124]
10 57 ms 60 ms 61 ms ae21.mpr1.slc2.us.zip.zayo.com [64.125.26.19]
11 * 59 ms 63 ms ae4.mpr2.slc2.us.zip.zayo.com [64.125.26.165]
12 106 ms 108 ms 104 ms ae11.cs1.den5.us.zip.zayo.com [64.125.26.42]
13 * * * Request timed out.
14 121 ms 116 ms * ae3.cs1.lga5.us.eth.zayo.com [64.125.29.208]
15 109 ms 110 ms 108 ms ae8.mpr3.bos2.us.zip.zayo.com [64.125.30.139]
16 115 ms 111 ms 118 ms 209.66.121.142
17 110 ms * 117 ms ae3-bstpmalljp1.lightower.net [144.121.35.37]
18 117 ms 115 ms 115 ms 160.72.248.57.lightower.net [160.72.248.57]
19 112 ms 110 ms 110 ms ae0-brtnmas6j81.lightower.net [65.254.31.58]
20 * 122 ms * 144.121.7.234.lightower.net [144.121.7.234]
21 * * * Request timed out.
22 * * * Request timed out.
23 * * * Request timed out.
24 * * * Request timed out.
25 * * * Request timed out.
26 * * * Request timed out.
27 * * * Request timed out.
28 * * * Request timed out.
29 * * * Request timed out.
30 * * * Request timed out.

Trace complete.

Any way to fix this? Ive done a DNS flush to see if there is a better path open but this ends up in the cache everytime. It appears the first 5 to 8 hops are nearest to my IPS (or my device) and fall under them.

[xaix1999]

hello we can see you use cox and live in phoenix

other than that i see nothing wrong here as ping requests are configured to be dropped or denied by some devices
* * * Request timed out.
this is normal behavior
you're in game ping looks like in-between 110ms to 120ms

to fix this basically reboot all of your devices that you are using (pc, wifi, router, modem)
second is to cut/paste your eq_client.ini files so they can be regenerated
same with your *character_name*_ui files in your everquest folder
check your eq_host file to make sure the login info is correct