I laugh every time I read this. “It” just sounds sooo mean. I remember flipping my shit when someone would call me it in the past. Feels dehumanizing.

i think the main thing is to be smooth as possible about the enbie thing. like say "this one" and other kinda slick agendery stuff to third parties, and be comfortable with it. also if you can ask its pronouns kinda naturally you'll seem like a real cool n-word, like it's not awkward to ask pronouns (it's not)

I am awake at 2:51 am for no fucking good reason. It is not my meds cuz i was sleeping like a baby when all I had was a dark room with a plastic safety cot that smelled like pee and one tiny rough plastic blanket that wasn't very warm at all.