| Xerxez |
10-29-2014 02:05 PM |
Quote:
Originally Posted by BlkCamel
(Post 1660973)
The Immersion is real, unfortunately this normal. As a Father of 3 sons this is the thought process at one point or another. Most people are not prepared for children, they just do not realize the investment it takes. And I am not talking about money.
After having 3 sons I feel I can express what OP is without discrimination, OP though appears to be on first child which always gets people freaky. What OP is going through is part of growing up and giving ourselves for others which comes with parenthood.
At-least he is posting his frustrations and acknowledging them in a healthy way then just ignoring his child and playing this stupid game anyways. OP knows his responsibilities and is acting accordingly, i.e. not playing and "enjoying" the affects of parenthood.:D
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Yeah I guess what it comes down to is purely sacrifice... I've come to realize that I have to give up my hobbies for their own well being and maybe learn to balance them at the same time.. I'll eventually get it down I just AM on my first child, and she's been wonderful, trust me. She sleeps 10 hours a night usually and rarely cries, she just started teething and at the 4 month age mark babies start developing at a rather quick rate for about 8 weeks... teething, hand eye coordination, nerves developing at a rapid rate, muscle strength for sitting/crawling/trying to stand all the time.. I know I'm not the only person that's gone through this I just felt like I needed to tell someone.. And what better than the Red99 RNF forum?? I was also curious to see what else people are going through, since this is the only social networking I do besides reddit, which is 98% blue bear bitches. Oh well, I'll figure out that balance soon enough. |
