Paladin starting stats?
 

My wife wants to be a paladin she is dead set on it , she wants a high elf, where should i put starting stats?

STA and STR, maybe Dex as I don't know the high elf stats all that well. Should be fine for Wisdom.

STA/STR.

Stamina is obviously by far the most important stat. However as a High Elf it's going to be a huge pain in the ass being encumbered all the time. I'm assuming your wife will be more concerned with the annoyance than being a .5% better tank.

Ignore the other stats and just get them as you get gear.

QFT...Even as a Troll I often wish I had put more points into STR.