any bored enchanter?
 

mind helping my iksar warrior in neriak 3rd gate get some faciton by charming mob for wine quest?

Charming something means you won't get the faction hits you're hoping for...

if you turn in wine while its charmed no faction hits?

Correct.

actually appears i'm apprehensive anyways, I think I just need an invis

At worst run through Neriak 3rd Gate (unless you're really low level) and zone into Neriak Commons. Try and get an invis at the zone line there from anyone passing by, or ask in ooc if anyone who is banking has got a sec for one on their way out <3

I just bought vial of swirling smokes, no invis for miles, got my faction though

thats a gate potion.

Invis breaks when you open a tradebox. You need to have someone cast invis on you while the tradebox is open, but before you click trade for invis to work.

apprehensive should be enough to turn in that quest.