The test
 

so ive figured out a way to test my theory that exp is the only thing hindering the server


Do a double or triple xp event for a day or weekend

and advertise it a week ahead of time , watch how many people play that day or days

i guarantee it will be impressive , even for pvping in exp zones

problem, no one not here due to insane exp lack will show up for a "weekend" only to have the exp gains drop again.

what would be the point of that? I could spend that time doing something useful, like building a log cabin in minecraft.