For any other new level 50+'s who wander into here, I took the suggested above advice and tried some of the things out.
Gathered up a group and tried out The hole. Was indeed a good spot, my group did not last to long though due to tank DCing. Over all a lot of fun though and pretty safe.
I then made the mistake of trying the suggestion of going to KC and LFG
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I found a friendly Necromancer there - we were doing some fear kiting, but then some Azraels zoned in and they were not friendly
[You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]. That or they hate Iskars who /wave with them. Either way that was my first time being hunted down by a cleric - very funny. Neat looking zone though(first time being in there), and the experience for the short time I was in there seemed great. Ill have to pray to the EQ gods I can sneak into some solid groups in there when they are not around.
Probably try sol b suggestion tomorrow.