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Originally Posted by fuji
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So what happens when the babies grow up and she is sitting around doing nothing all day, except heating you up a meal when u get home? How often do u need to vacume the house? I clean my house every weekend it only takes about 2hrs to do everything. Dishwasher washes dishes, washer washes clothes, shit isnt hard to do. And if you didnt want to do it, u could eat out all the time, hire a maid and it would be a lot cheaper. Plus she wont nag u when u get home.
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Kids are hard work fuji, unless you want them to turn out like about 85% of the knuckleheads on this board.
That's why I said the rules go out the window. You're going to have to allow her to skate on some of the rules you've established, once the little parasites enter the picture.
Personally, I allowed mine to slack on the cooking and cleaning a bit so she could continue the sex and the gym, but that's just me - I figured I can fire up the BBQ most nights to help with the cooking and I've been cleaning up after myself since I got out of high school, so I've happily compromised in those areas.
See, you can still be selfish and have a wife and kids. Again, it's all about COMMUNICATION.