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Old 07-13-2015, 08:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Donruss [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]
Meh. I was in mad shape 2 years and 2 months ago.

There are a lot of factors, out of my control, that lead me to p99 again. A lot of people find p99 when they are really down. Example: super sick for a long period of time. I was one of those who found p99 when I was way down. P99 had nothing to do with year 1, I wasn't going to get laid anyways.. year 2 though, makes me wonder.

Here is what makes me wonder. I started this game as a virgin (I was 12?) And quit as a virgin. Sold everything I could get my hands on and bought a car. Was 15, almost 16. I was never Killin the game, but I got mine late highschool / college. Had my fair share after too. Started playing eq again and nothing...

Are women and eq mutually exclusive? Based on evidence, I think they may be.
Number of points here. If you are playing EQ re: neck-bearding to the exclusion of everything else, then yes, women and EQ are mutually exclusive. However, there are a large number of players who are married / relationships, have children, work, etc, who manage to play EQ.

Questions that you need to ask yourself are:
1. What are the priorities in my life?
2. How much time do I have?
3. How am I going to allocate that time?

With regards to women, determine whether you want casual or a relationship. Be very clear and do not send mixed messages. Tinder can be good for the former, not so much for the latter.

Take stock of your life: get yourself in reasonable shape, smarten up appearance and hygiene, make an effort (outside of EQ), think upon where to meet women (what do you want? Casual? Relationship?), then act upon your plan.

Age matters. I am a LOT more confidence now in my early 40s than when I was a teen: more experience, I look better, dress better, have more money, more settled, yada, yada, yada.

Others can provide the dating advice, but fundamentally you need to decide your priorities, and allocate sufficient time that makes sense for that priority. If you decide that finding someone (casual or relationship) is the No.1 priority, then the time that you allocate towards this goal must be proportional to the priority. If you allocate 30 minutes a week, then either you have mis-prioritised or you are not serious.

Clear, logical, and consistent thoughts lead to clear, logical and consistent actions, which in time lead to desired results **.

** I am not personally liable if after a set period of time you are still jacking off to waifu. Go back to your planning your priorities and execute better.
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