Hey Alphan,
First, welcome to the server. I would suggest checking out the Newbie guide on the Project1999 wiki if you haven't already, its a good resource for new players.
http://wiki.project1999.com/Players:Newbie
Also, I would also suggest making some in game friends who are more experienced with the game. They can help you along. Often the guy who looks like a noob next to you has years of experience with EQ.
Other than that, remember to take your lumps in stride. You will die; you will lose experience.
Good luck and have fun =)