[AzzarTheGod]

Originally Posted by Big_Japan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

girls who do drugs on their own are a hassle. i prefer to be the one instigating such behavior for regulatory purposes

This. If she uses drugs I prefer to be in charge of the regulation especially at the beginning of a relationship.

I assumed control over my ex's alcohol use because she was a sloppy mess who needed a father. Regularly denied her alcohol.

I would give her a sleeping medication instead with her consent (no cosby) as a more emotionally-stable solution to her need to tranquilize herself.