1. you might want to look at a bunch of different sets of armor/gear depending on what you'd be doing. A cha set for charming, a good tanking set with AC/HP, and dex in general helps.
2. depends on party and your level... generally as you level your songs will become more and more impactful than melee, and additionally it also depends on how big the party is, the smaller the party generally the more useful meleeing might be. But every situation is going to be different and you will slowly learn whats most effective and when.
3. Almost anything after you get mana song, charm and fear.
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