If it's not in your EQ directory that means you probably installed EQ to the default location under "Program Files". That's considered a "protected" folder by Windows so the EQ client isn't able to write changes to files (unless you run EQ as admin). When this is the case, the client will instead write to your user temp folder. Look for an EverQuest folder (possibly under Sony?) in C:\Users\<your windows user name>\AppData\. Note that the AppData folder is hidden, so either change your view settings to show hidden files, or just type the path in the file explorer bar and it'll open it.
Alternatively, copy your EQ install somewhere outside of Program Files (like c:\games or whatever) and then update your shortcut to launch titanium with the new path. The first time you run EQ after moving it, it will generate a default eqclient.ini and then changes made within the game should remain permanent (like your /shadows on command).
-Mcoy
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