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Oh and in regard to the crying part will only hurt you with women, that’s pretty debatable. Women are natural nurturers with a greater sense for empathy, we’ll start with that. Then consider how you might feel if a friend came up to you in tears and you comforted them. Would you think “wow, what a pussy, wasting my time like this” or would you be happy you comforted your friend? Helping others gives us a good feeling about ourselves, and this includes emotionally helping others. This is why there is the saying there is no such thing as a selfless act
Now if a guy cried to his wife all the time or a lot then sure, there might be some question of masculinity
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