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This being said, yes there is a “numbers game” strategy, and because it can be effective, I’m sure it subconsciously reinforces this guy’s world view
And that “numbers game” strategy is that, if a 6/10 looks dude went around outside bars and clubs and popular hangouts and asked out 500 women significantly out of his league (which would mean dozens per night out), eventually he would get a “yes”
That’s assuming this person can mentally handle the hundreds of rejections. And the female version would be a woman who either also gets rejected or only gets a one night stand-> ghost with a “Chad” guy. A string of these would also tend to wear negatively on their self-esteem, believe me
So is it an effective strategy? Sure, one of the most effective if you want to “punch above” your dating weight. Does it mean that all men and women behave or should behave in this way? No
Like I said, good luck with your hundreds of rejections trying it
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