Oh and stopping porn and especially stopping fapping as often (within reason obviously) tends to improve how attractive you’ll see IRL women AND how horny you will be. I know there’s bro’s that are like nah man, every time I fap I just get hornier, I fap like 82 times a day breugh. That’s cool, for most of us people with different brains than that, generally the longer we go without fapping the hornier we get
And being horny is an advantage on dates, not a disadvantage IMO. That scene in Something About Mary where that friend suggested having a wank before a date is a looooaaad of shiiiit. What you want to have no sexual thoughts so you can sit and talk about video games and fashion and gossip about other boys and then give her a high five and a handshake after the date? Way to friendzone yourself
No you want that horniness driving you to make moves, just don’t be a creeper about it. The hornier you can get before a date the better. You’re going to be anxious as fuck either way I promise, better to be an anxious but having some semblance of lust rather than being anxious and having her be your therapist
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