Guys come on now...you don't need to log on your "wife's" account to sit in EC with such things as this:-
http://ahungry.com/eqauctions
As seen in the "two-boxing" thread stickied, I'm extremely anti-boxing because trying to get a group with my rogue and even cleric would be an even trickier task with anti-social boxers all over the place on the server.
If you really want to play two accounts at once, do it positively and play 1 character on blue, 1 on red. Or pick another EQemu server, plenty there.