Well, I hear what your saying and we do all that aggressive play too sometimes, not all the time, but it's a separate activity that takes place in the bedroom. I take off my "Dom" role when I leave the bedroom. Our sex life is great, We get super freaky, but it seems like a chore to get initiated at times.
and whipping out my junk is what started this frustration in the first place because lately I whip it out and get a "not now, sorry I'm not in the mood" answer.
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