I have this happen on my second computer with EQ on it. Interestingly, after the first error (and attempting 10 seconds) it pops up with the full server list.
Question : Have you used the emulator before and patched the files successful and then got into the game? If so then stop using the emulator.
Make a shortcut of your eqgame.exe and then right click the shortcut, goto
properties and you get this on the 'shortcut' tab
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Look in the target box and add
patchme at the end (obviously your install folder is different than this one).
Now run that to enter EQ directly from now on.
Only use the EMU launcher when you have to repair or update spell files.