I've never been in a group that was GBN unless everyone agreed about it. Same for NBG. If you're complaining that tells me you don't know how to be a leader and how to engage and manage a group. If you feel NBG is important than you must bring this up with your group. Quit the group if you feel you're not being listened to, but I've never met a group of people who couldn't compromise or listen. If you can't find a middle ground, it's equally your fault for not giving good impressions. Don't be afraid to draw a line - to set the rules. Confront it.
If someone is a **** and ninja loots it, then let everyone on the server know.
Sorry, this sounds to me like someone who didn't speak up or didn't communicate well and then was the unwilling victim of a greed loot. Then they yelled and screamed and came here. Like I said, and i'm honest about this, i've never been in a group that couldn't compromise or listen. Never. This person is probably partly to blame for their experience.
Communication is so important to prevent mishaps like this. People need to talk and not hold their feelings to themselves. A good group exchanges information and sets up the ground rules early.
Know what else? People expect rewards for playing. Of course they want an item for an upgrade or to sell it. That's how this game and others work. Greed is a natural element of gameplay. It helps to motivate us. It gets out of control when the rules are skewed or disorderly. Blaming greed is a scapegoat. Blame the lack of leadership. The lack of communication and rules that everyday people understand. That's the culprit.
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