[Gustoo]

When it comes to girls, listen to the words they say, try to understand them, and then respond with empathy.

And under no circumstances should you send a message to anyone via usps mail, email, or personal or direct message on any other platform that is negative in any way. It is counter productive and stupid.

And under no circumstances should you think about what is fair and what you deserve. It's the wrong attitude. Pray for gifts and be thankful for the gifts that you have.

Play-by-play analysis about girl on couch with you - a lot of people don't like "dropping hints" its a very passive way of existing and for some people a major turnoff. Being frank is a very good way to be IF you can shift your mentality to one where your frank attitude isn't despicable due to your fucked worldview. See comments about fairness.

"Hey! It's good to see you!" and then later "Would you like to take me to that next party?"

Being afraid of failure is something that will hold you back in your life. Asking someone out point blank can result in rejection and failure but it is also the best way to achieve success (by actually trying).

Good job saving the Cat. Now look at your life and all that you have to be grateful for and take ANY step towards a better life as often as you can. Every single moment you have opportunities to better yourself and others. You will not become everything God wants you to become in 1 night via epiphany. You get there by daily steering yourself better and better.

All people not only cute women will notice that you are a whole person and will be attracted to you.

You can do it.