Only other suggestions I have
1. Change your role in the group. Either embrace it. AC/HP up and flame lick away or do outdoor zones and (harmony) pull better than the monk can.
2. Let the SK snare and aggro cast before engaging, half way through jolt/cinder jolt
3. Pick up one of these which has a reduce hate proc
https://wiki.project1999.com/Fellspine%27s_Tail