Like everything else in life, dating is a skill. Some people are more naturally gifted at it than others. Dating also needs other skills, such as social skills, and hygene skills.
Natural looks help, but looks cannot be easily changed, and many women honestly aren't looking for a male model, even if they claim it. Most people look somewhat attractive, unless you got extremely unlucky genetically.
You just need to keep getting back on the horse every time you fail. You will learn something new from every attempt, and level up your dating skills. Eventually you will meet someone who won't reject you. Just be patient, persistent, and don't stalk people lol. When they say they aren't interested, they probably mean it.
For your original question, if you want to practice dating online, volume is key. Join as many big sites as you can, and be as active as you can. Unfortunately these sites are designed to give you too many choices (and you really only have a picture to go with), so most of the time it is luck when you find someone who is willing to chat with you for more than 5 seconds.
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