Just copy/paste the EQui_Musicplayerwnd.xml out of any different UI, overwrite the QQUI one, and it will adopt the transparency. The window backgrounds are based on the wnd_bg_light/dark_rock.tga files which in QQUI are the same as the Velious UI.
This is what it looks like after copying out of the Default UI with EC sand behind it
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