[Topgunben]

Dont come to elf sim forum for marriage advice. With that said, let me give you some advice:

Women arent meant to be the boss. No matter how much they think they need to be the boss, they will always end up feeling less secure if they get to tell you what to do. Mothers tell their boys what to do, but one sign of a boy growing up to be a man is when he stops doing everything his mom tells him to do and goes out on his own and does his own thing. That doesnt mean you shouldnt listen or take their advice, but always remember that you are the boss, not her.

That doesnt mean your wife isnt right about some things. Maybe you have got to change some behaviors to placate her (you may never be able to fully satisfy her). BTW, nearly all women are crazy and neurotic. I seemed to have lucked out in the sense that my wife is about as easy going and understanding as any, but both of my sisters and mom are pure batshit crazy.

Sex is more important than you could imagine in marriage. It's the canary in the coal mine so-to-speak. If you are looking at porn you should stop. If she doesnt want to have sex, thats a huge problem that needs to be addressed immediately. If she has gained 2x her bodyweight since you were married, that is a major issue and she needs to lose the weight. If you would rather spend time on P99 then rolling around naked with her, you need to ask yourself why.

If you have kids, strongly consider not getting a divorce. Your life can turn into a living hell very quickly.