Weapon Choice for Monkly Tanking?

[TheFishyOne]

'ey guys.

I'm a 35 Iksar Monk, and when I group, I'm usually told to tank. I can't hold aggro worth a damn, however. I usually tank with a trance stick in my main hand, and a Cane of Harmony in the other. My unbuffed DEX is only 108, tho, so it doesn't proc often. I have 2x +5 STR +5 DEX rings, but they'd require taking off my AC and HP rings. I also have a Wu's Quivering Staff on me. Given the preceding, which gear would you equip if you were a level 35 Iksar Monk who usually has to tank when he groups?