New computer/install wont launch

[mountaingoat]

So, I bought a fab new gaming PC but when i Launch Titanium I go to the login screen. I insert my info then move to the server select. When I select it tries to launch then goes right back to login. I have eqgame set to run as admin and on compatibility mode XP service pack 3 ( i also tried 2)

I've tried having my native resolution the same as the game. I've tried editing my resolution on eqclient.ini but it doesnt have reso just VideoMode=0
I've reinstalled several times and made sure it's not in program files.

the only other solution i've seen is going into bios and underclocking my processor but i dont feel great about doing that as i doubt i could put it back.

I played EQ in 1999. It is my GAME. there's nothing that compares and i desperately would like to be able to play again. any help would be greatly appreciated.

Much Love <3