It's your fault.

[a_gnoll_pup]

It's your fault you got wiped in <raid zone name> by <rival guild name here>.
It's your fault you raided with <insert guild name here>.
It's your fault you couldn't kill a contested NPC with other NPCs around it.
It's your fault for playing other people that want the same thing you do.
It's your fault for knowing the consequences, and knowing what you are getting into, and doing it anyways.
It's your fault when your guild goes into Velious with the same attitude that they have now and wipes repeatedly.

It's your fault for raiding on Project 1999 when you could be enjoying the journey without that set of twink items, making new friends, and getting along with everyone as you journey endlessly to a destination that may not even be realized in your characters' lifetime.

It's your fault, but it doesn't have to be. You have the power to change that.