When you're healing

[wulfenger]

Don't put up with people complaining about not getting a buff when the first time they asked they were out of range.

Don't put up with someone complaining about not getting a heal when they are not pulling in range of the heal.

Don't get bullied. If you're worried about getting kicked from groups if you defend yourself, understand that you are going to run into people with some internal issues and it's not the end of the world.