Eff Cancer and eff this stupid bathroom debate!

[maerilith]

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"It's time I said this. Take a good hard look at my chest. Don't feel weird doing it. There is nothing sacred or sexual left to see.

What is there for you to see is a hollowed arm pit. Breast cancer spreads first to your underarm lymph nodes. Seeing as mine was under my left arm, they removed all of my lymph nodes & a lot of tissue. You may also note an incision that is disfigured as this kept opening up post surgery.

While I can see that the pink ribbon brings comfort to some... I want you to know that breast cancer is ugly. It's not an easy or a glam cancer to have. In fact cancers are one & the same to me. Cells run wild. Immune system compromised.

It robbed me of a precious part of myself that I once nourished my children with. It took away part of my sexual identity. Now that's if we're just talking about my breasts or my former breasts I'll say.

When I chose to not have reconstruction it was for many reasons but most importantly it was because my children had seen me down enough. I wanted them to see me strong again. I wanted them to have their Mother they knew.

Until recently I have been very comfortable with my decision. However... The great bathroom debate of 2016 has hurt more than just the transgender community.

It has hurt us survivors. Recently I notice more eyes trying to figure me out. At the grocery store, restaurants ... Walmart was the worst. I want to scream, YES! You are seeing it right! This is Breast Cancer... Please check yourself!' But instead I let my eyes meet theirs in an almost plea for a change in what has become our society.

I am personally of the belief that no transgender person wants to cause trouble in a bathroom. People just want to use the restroom. There have been terrible acts happening in public restrooms long before this. This is why my children never use a public restroom without me. You don't have to agree with me & I don't have to agree with you. It's ok.

Persons undergoing cancer treatment or post cancer treatment may lack hair & wear a baseball hat. They may have undergone a mastectomy like myself. Please consider these things. Rant over."

*************** Not my OC, Posted to signal boot the public FaceBook post at:https://www.facebook.com/plugins/pos...43427075804951

Originally Posted by Daywolf [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Hate who? that's you not me. I just called him a circus freak, and that he is fooled by the dark lord of mordor [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Originally Posted by maerilith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You are insane and what you do is so hurtful and painful to people on so many levels and your denial of it is sick.

You call me a pervert you call her a circus freak you threaten to send us all to Mexico. You rage that the communist liberal circus freaks will get all the Aryan white people killed. Those people are actors payed to create hate and division and polarize people and one person doesn't represent all trans people.

When none of this is true. All that you base "circus freek" "pervert" "liberal nazi" is patently false.

It's your hate that is divisive and hurtful to those around you and which is causing Americans to berg out over nothing and physically harm other human beings.

The fact that you can't stand me stating this simple fact, that's all I'm doing, excersing my free speech to point out how evil you are. Is beyond proof.

Keep spreading the hate Daywolf, it will get around to you eventually.

I guess the girl linked to is a circus freak and deserves your hate too? We should make people fear for their lives because you are slightly uncomfortable with their gender daywolf? Singling out and torturing a specific group of people out of blind fear, is bigotry and the corner stone of hatred.

I'm really sad this poor girl had to go through cancer to understand what it is people like you spread in our society [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[Blitzers]

Originally Posted by maerilith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

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I guess the girl linked to is a circus freak and deserves your hate too? We should make people fear for their lives because you are slightly uncomfortable with their gender daywolf? Singling out and torturing a specific group of people out of blind fear, is bigotry and the corner stone of hatred.

I'm really sad this poor girl had to go through cancer to understand what it is people like you spread in our society [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So, 1st we play the Race card claiming Jim Crow style discrimination, and now we're going to exploit cancer patients to try and move our Agenda? Seriously do you people have any integrity at all? Cancer sux, but to use it as a stepping stone for the bathroom debate is deplorable. I have the deepest of *sympathy* for cancer victims, this is how most of my family passed on. As for this woman who had breast cancer I feel sorry for her definately. But you Trannies using this to actual try and secure some moral high ground really is sickening. I would like to see the same outcry for the *Aborted* baby that no treatment could stop his/her "cancer." This is fucking just low, really low.

[maerilith]

Originally Posted by Blitzers [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So, 1st we play the Race card claiming Jim Crow style discrimination, and now we're going to exploit cancer patients to try and move our Agenda? Seriously do you people have any integrity at all? Cancer sux, but to use it as a stepping stone for the bathroom debate is deplorable. I have the deepest of *sympathy* for cancer victims, this is how most of my family passed on. As for this woman who had breast cancer I feel sorry for her definately. But you Trannies using this to actual try and secure some moral high ground really is sickening. I would like to see the same outcry for the *Aborted* baby that no treatment could stop his/her "cancer." This is fucking just low, really low.

You are accusing a cis woman who is a cancer patient and mother who spoke up for us out of compassion. I quoted her words and title directly. I am grateful she's willing to do to speak up for what is right. It's woman like her that inspire me every day to keep on living and doing my best to help everyone I know keep on living. I'm sure she wouldn't have posted to imgur if she didn't want to have her words spread far and wide.

Gr8t job not even reading anything blitzers. Please stop this and go re-read the post from top to bottom. You're responding with blind emotional anger and hatred towards something you are clearly not well informed on. Because of a false belief in a morality that isn't your right to push onto other people through laws or discrimination, or other forms of hatred and bigotry. By condoning the abuse of people for their differences and for the circumstances they suffer you are being horrible [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

When bigots use children and woman and all kinds of other excuses to legitimize their claims, without letting those people speak for themselves. That is truly evil. At least I'm not changing or spinning what this woman is saying. I am with her 100% on her views and wouldn't tell you otherwise. Your welcome to your sad and immoral point of view. But it does certainly sicken me and sadden me. It probably would hurt her too if she could read what you are saying.

[sOurDieSel]

The LGBTQXYZ 'community' is now exploiting cancer patients....

The only reason people are now noticing her more is because the crazy SJWs (Cultural Marxist Pawns) are pushing this tranny bathroom agenda. It wasn't an issue until you made it an issue.

[Pokesan]

Originally Posted by sOurDieSel [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

The LGBTQXYZ 'community' is now exploiting cancer patients....

Agreeing with the opinion of a cancer survivor is now considered exploiting.

[maerilith]

Originally Posted by Pokesan [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Agreeing with the opinion of a cancer survivor is now considered exploiting.

Apparently if they speak for children and woman on their behalf and other minorities it's ok. But if I simply repost and affirm agreement with someone I'm the devil. Probably because of who they were told to to think I am instead of who I am or who the people I'm quoting are.

Sick [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Thanks for standing up for us Pokesan.

[maskedmelon]

Cancer sucks. Loss of boobs is depressing. Bathroom laws are stupid. Private establishments should be free to discriminate however the please be it against women or gun toters or people with mustaches or people with political opinions they don't like. Don't like it? Don't go there.

[Blitzers]

Originally Posted by maerilith [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Apparently if they speak for children and woman on their behalf and other minorities it's ok. But if I simply repost and affirm agreement with someone I'm the devil. Probably because of who they were told to to think I am instead of who I am or who the people I'm quoting are.

Sick [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Thanks for standing up for us Pokesan.

So your not using this to gain some moral high ground? Then why repost it here? why not just read it, agree with it, and exit her post. Did you forget Daywolf combs every fucking thread on p99 with the Hubble Telescope? Don't give me this shit you had ZERO fucking agenda behind your post, your fucking quotes of Daywolf afterwards shows exactly what you were aiming for. Yes we can all sympathize with her, but leave it at that. Don't fucking add your Agenda which is clear and evident.

[maerilith]

Originally Posted by Blitzers [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

So your not using this to gain some moral high ground? Then why repost it here? why not just read it, agree with it, and exit her post. Did you forget Daywolf combs every fucking thread on p99 with the Hubble Telescope? Don't give me this shit you had ZERO fucking agenda behind your post, your fucking quotes of Daywolf afterwards shows exactly what you were aiming for. Yes we can all sympathize with her, but leave it at that. Don't fucking add your Agenda which is clear and evident.

My agenda is to stop the hatred and stop being bullied and stop being tormented and to help this woman who faces discrimination because of the behavior of people who won't look past their own agenda [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Why don't you tell daywolf to stop posting his agenda, why don't you stop pushing yours.

It's not my agenda I'm pushing. It's this womans story. And you want to know how I feel about it by attacking me for posting it, well now you do.

Your welcome.

[Nihilist_santa]

Quick fix for this!

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