Advice on life

[Thulian]

Move and take your mom with you and dont look back. It is not worth living with toxicity on any level, some people are toxic and want to ruin others. He will never be changed because that is who he is.

if you or your mom put up with it, its because you are weak and want to.

[magnetaress]

Originally Posted by Thulian [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Move and take your mom with you and dont look back. It is not worth living with toxicity on any level, some people are toxic and want to ruin others. He will never be changed because that is who he is.

if you or your mom put up with it, its because you are weak and want to.

Sorta agree with this, but it just may not be immediately feasible, or the correct immediate course of action. Refer back to flow chart and do what you can, not what you 'want to do' or feel like.

[BiG SiP]

best i can do is stop teasing you about anime
good luck with the hand dealt tunabro

[GinnasP99]

You need to forgive. The conversation could literally be over in like 1.5 minute. "Hey dad, I just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry for resenting you. I know that you couldn't help it and I was playing God by judging you" If you will do that (and mean it) your whole life will get better. Or continue to suffer

[BarnabusCollins]

How bout get a job and get the fuck out.

[Rang]

don't go into debt for school. go to community college 2 years and xfer to an in state school. get a degree in something with solid job prospects (comp sci is best followed by accounting or finance). if you aren't interested in any of those go to trade school and learn hvac or plumbing trade. don't go into debt. work part time when not in school / while in school if you can manage it. learn to set up a budget (every dollar spent has a name). learn how to invest savings into stock market. try to save and invest as much as you can. once you get a big boy job move out and continue to save and invest. don't go into debt

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by GinnasP99 [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

You need to forgive. The conversation could literally be over in like 1.5 minute. "Hey dad, I just wanted to let you know that I'm sorry for resenting you. I know that you couldn't help it and I was playing God by judging you" If you will do that (and mean it) your whole life will get better. Or continue to suffer

everytime I say that to him

he does the same shit again, he never changes and is a hypocrite

Originally Posted by BarnabusCollins [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

How bout get a job and get the fuck out.

Have to take care of my mother and little sister

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by BiG SiP [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

best i can do is stop teasing you about anime
good luck with the hand dealt tunabro

thank Snortles maybe your not so evil [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.][You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

[magnetaress]

 

Snortles isn't evil, but he is kinda flippant, selfish, egocentric. None of these traits are especially bad in moderation or dark side only.

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by magnetaress [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

 

Snortles isn't evil, but he is kinda flippant, selfish, egocentric. None of these traits are especially bad in moderation or dark side only.

eh he's not evil

he's pretty funny (but only If he's making fun of other people and not yourself lol)