Originally Posted by Vharvest
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So, what you should take away from this is that you basically receive zero reward or recognition from the hardcore player base of toxic and hateful players that have stuck around for no other reason than to observe how much MORE toxic they can aspire to be. They get off on it. For you to put some work in to the GM event and then feel as though you weren't appreciated .... well, of course not, because they've never appreciated anything you have done in the past.
My post wasn't meant to insult you, in fact it's more of a stab at those who basically ruin anything you try to put together based on their attitudes towards the game.
Personally, there's no way I could do what you're doing and I respect you for that. I chose strong words and I apologize for that, I was a little out of line for sure, BUT, you should definitely take a step back and realize that new players like, or people coming from blue ..... well, we're going to see a GM event as something special that should be taken advantage of.
Believe me, if I was level 60 with raid gear and I had the slightest chance of affecting the outcome of last night's event, or if I had any influence whatsoever over the inner workings of Holo/Nihi/Azrael/whoever, then I would tell them that they are basically being dbags, but they already know that and so do you.
I'm not offering a fix-all solution to your predicament, but maybe you should just host lower level events or cater to those who have thrown themselves in to the server in an attempt to change it once they reach the required benchmarks in the game to do so.
Maybe you could plant some seeds, foster some of the new faces, and who knows, maybe three months from now you will have a guild who PVP's and isn't full of negativity. Reach out to those who have positive things to say about the work you put in here, instead of trying to earn respect from those who will not give it to you, no matter what you do.
You guys could release Velious tommorow, and the only thing they would have to say is "Why didn't you do it sooner, OMG there are still bugs, OMG this is such garbage." Less than 5% of the "regulars" would actually be genuinely excited about it because they're so jaded right now that Mother Theresa herself could be the GM for the server and it still wouldn't matter.
I'm sorry man, I actually really feel bad for you, but what you're doing is important for the longevity of the server and there are those of us who don't want to see you just throw in the towel because a bunch of trolls are taking you for granted for the millionth time.
The only reason I myself was somewhat negative about the situation is because you basically gave up the moment everyone didn't fall to their knees and praise you for trying something new, HOWEVER...
If you had stuck to your guns instead of acknowledging the fact that their criticism bothered you, and you just move on and do another event next Friday, rest assured that there are players who look forward to that.
It actually discourages the new people more when we see the old people basically running GM support in to the ground, because we'd like to see more stuff like this, but not if it's going to basically signify that you're getting more and more likely to just turn your back on the whole project further.
I have no right to comment with any authority on any of this because like you said, I haven't been able to observe for an extended period of time. I am a blue player of a few years however, and I've been on the forums that entire time, just reading all the crap that you have to put up with, and let me say that it is very regrettable.
Sorry I pissed you off, I could have put it more politely instead of sounding like an Azrael or Nihilum dbag.... I shouldn't spout off about how unhealthy they are for this community and then basically emulate that behavior.
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