Bards - CHA and DEX

[Faerie]

CHA doesn't have anything to do with mez resists. Very important for lull if you'll pulling, and the charm thing isn't a big deal regardless because even with 200 CHA your charm lasts like no time at all. I'm not even sure if CHA affects charm tbh.

Both CHA and DEX are considered in calculation of missed notes (if this server is like live).

EDIT: Oh uhm. Always go for STA/hp gear before DEX and CHA as a bard. Bard gear has lots of DEX and CHA and you'll get to where you need to be anyway.