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Old 08-22-2016, 02:41 PM
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You and your wife need grief counseling.
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Old 08-22-2016, 02:43 PM
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You and your wife need grief counseling.
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Feel free to rant it up here but you should both consider therapy for a little bit. No shame in it.

Sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine.
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Old 08-22-2016, 02:58 PM
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I raided a lot with Willfight while in <Asgard> – He is a very serious/mature person (still a funny guy though) and it absolutely breaks my heart to hear you are going through this my friend. Life is full of peril and strife, you can’t have the good without the bad. That may seem like a bitter pill to swallow right now, but just know that you have an entire crew of nerds who enjoy your company and are praying for you. Time heals all wounds and your son would want you to be strong for his memory and his mom, keep fighting the good fight and don’t let life get you down.

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Old 08-22-2016, 03:15 PM
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I am really sorry to read about your loss, Will. Sickness never makes sense, but even less so when it is in a little one.
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Old 08-22-2016, 10:31 PM
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Damn.


Sorry to hear about your loss and suffering.

Don't give in to despair.
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Old 08-22-2016, 10:39 PM
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Condolences, my long-time warrior friend.

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Old 08-22-2016, 10:50 PM
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Thank you all for your kind and helpful messages. My wife and I just returned from counseling and I had a hard time giving her any chance... I know i should but I couldn't. I don't know what I want but it hurts to walk passed his room and see his toys and clothes. Its not fair
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Old 08-22-2016, 10:51 PM
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At this point I just want to drown in EQ and get lost in this world
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Old 08-23-2016, 09:35 AM
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I think you should be farther away from Everquest then ever. It sounds like you are going through a hard time in your marriage aside from your grievance. I would recommend finding common activities with your wife. Do whatever you can to find the joy you once had for the sake of your son. Celebrate in anyway you can. While you say you have a hard time giving her any chance, I wonder how she feels.

I can't imagine what you are going through however I can't imagine going through it alone without someone physically there to comfort you. While you may find solace and company through the bonds you have created on Project 1999 I implore you to find another connection. Everquest is fantasy; family is time and now. Don't loose anymore time with your current loved ones or close friends. If you need a compromise, and you think you have someone you can reach out you met on this server, set up a LAN Party.

Take a vacation to clear your head.
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Old 08-23-2016, 09:52 AM
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I think you should be farther away from Everquest then ever. It sounds like you are going through a hard time in your marriage aside from your grievance. I would recommend finding common activities with your wife. Do whatever you can to find the joy you once had for the sake of your son. Celebrate in anyway you can. While you say you have a hard time giving her any chance, I wonder how she feels.

I can't imagine what you are going through however I can't imagine going through it alone without someone physically there to comfort you. While you may find solace and company through the bonds you have created on Project 1999 I implore you to find another connection. Everquest is fantasy; family is time and now. Don't loose anymore time with your current loved ones or close friends. If you need a compromise, and you think you have someone you can reach out you met on this server, set up a LAN Party.

Take a vacation to clear your head.
This right here. We lost our newborn son when he was 45 days old to CDH. I wish i would have had this information when it happened. I just sat at the house and did nothing to the point where it almost ruined our marriage. Please take this advice and spend time with your wife and talk about everything. I know it hurts to talk about it, but in the long run it will make your relationship better.
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