Crying on the forums every week when your guild loses is a bad look. I'm very concerned about some of your mental health. This might be helpful:
The 5 stages of grief (after realizing your mega zerg guild doesn't get the entire server uncontested free loot anymore).
1. Denial - Grief is an overwhelming emotion. It’s not unusual to respond to the intense and often sudden feelings by pretending the loss or change isn’t happening. Denying it gives you time to more gradually absorb the news and begin to process it. This is a common defense mechanism and helps numb you to the intensity of the situation.You told yourself it was just a bad week, now after losing the majority of vulaks, you moved on to stage 2.
2. Anger -Anger may mask itself in feelings like bitterness or resentment. It may not be clear-cut fury or rage. Not everyone will experience this stage, and some may linger here. As the anger subsides, however, you may begin to think more rationally about what’s happening and feel the emotions you’ve been pushing aside. You loaded the GM queue with bogus petitions, you didn't know how to handle those feelings.
3. Bargaining - You felt vulnerable and helpless. In those moments of intense emotions, it’s not uncommon to look for ways to regain control or to want to feel like you can affect the outcome of an event. In the bargaining stage of grief, you may find yourself creating a lot of “what if” and “if only” statements. What if they were cheating, they only won BECAUSE...
4. Depression (You are here) -Depression may feel like the inevitable landing point of any loss. However, if you feel stuck here or can’t seem to move past this stage of grief, talk with a mental health expert. A therapist can help you work through this period of coping.
5. Acceptance - Acceptance is not necessarily a happy or uplifting stage of grief. It doesn’t mean you’ve moved past the grief or loss. It does, however, mean that you’ve accepted it and have come to understand what it means in your life now.
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10-11-2020, 12:39 PM
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