Advice on life

[Jibartik]

I tell my friends I have like 20 transgender friends thanks to these forums and I like, lord it over their democrat asses and use it to win arguments with them all the time.

Thanks gals!

[Tunabros]

you know what, i take it back. Im not gonna let him rot on the streets.

Even though he's regarded and jerk, I will still support him in his old age.

I will not be asshole like he was. And no, I will never regret saying that

[Cassawary]

Get a ho pregnant to satisfy ur biological imperative

Only then can you quest in peace ✌️

[Topgunben]

How old are you Tuna?

[Jibartik]

Originally Posted by Tunabros [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

you know what, i take it back. Im not gonna let him rot on the streets.

Even though he's regarded and jerk, I will still support him in his old age.

I will not be asshole like he was. And no, I will never regret saying that

good for you!

you know, that is great.

Its hard to pull that off. Being a better man.

One day if you do youll be glad you did.

maybe it will be when you throw dirt on him, maybe it will be when you two embrace and smile after growing and connecting.

either way, there is good vibes in there for you my man, good luck with it!

[Tunabros]

Originally Posted by Topgunben [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

How old are you Tuna?

I am currently 22 years old.

Originally Posted by Jibartik [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

good for you!

you know, that is great.

Its hard to pull that off. Being a better man.

One day if you do youll be glad you did.

maybe it will be when you throw dirt on him, maybe it will be when you two embrace and smile after growing and connecting.

either way, there is good vibes in there for you my man, good luck with it!

Thanks =)

I feel a lot better with your guy's responses Thanks all

[Topgunben]

Originally Posted by Tunabros [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I am currently 22 years old.

Sorry for your tough living situation. Things will get better.

Dont worry about your parents man. Its difficult I know, Ive been there. But you have enough on your plate.

Just start making money, college might be the way to go for some people, but right now, you can make $70,000 with no experience in anything if you are willing to hustle. I just got my buddy a job doing industrial cleaning and he will be making about that his first year, (thats if he doesnt get fired for acting like a doofus). Id be happy to give you a contact for that job if you are interested, just PM me.

[Swish]

Sometimes a bad parent can still serve as a role model, one that illustrates how you shouldn't be, shouldn't act... and you can use that to be better in yourself <3

My dad was an alcoholic most of his life. I still drink occasionally but I would hate to look in the mirror and see the alcoholic he was staring back at me.

Use any negative energy to make positive changes where you can.

[BarnabusCollins]

One day he will be dead and you can relax.

[magnetaress]

didn't read OP, but it's just best to ignore things you can't change, here's a flow chart:

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There are some things in my life right now and I

am having a very hard time. The main reason is my own father. I never had a good

relationship with him.

I joined the military and got strong enough to kill him. When the time came, I stood in front of his car and told him to run me the fuck down like the coward he is. He backed off, called the police (they had a good heartwarming talk with me as it was my driveway and asked if I wanted to press charges, I didn't) and he disappeared from my life essentially at that point. I'm sort of glad I didn't just walk up behind him and crush the rest of his spine. He is a victim of circumstances far beyond his control. Killing him would have been cowardly, effortless, and meaningless. I still get anxiety about interacting with him, but thankfully, I have the freedom and boundaries developed to finally not be forced into another confrontation. Regardless, I have forgiven him for his mistakes, though those mistakes still torment me. And I know he is far from able to correct his flaws. I wish there was a good way to let him know I don't want him to suffer and be able to find peace on earth while he is still living and in fact do care about him, that's why I was so upset. But it's not safe, and I haven't figured that part out.

Hope this helps.

P.S. Tunabros you are not wrong and in some ways you're right, I don't mind if you consider me CAP. I am not a female. In fact right now I am in a barely passable trash spiral, I don't go out in public and everyone is right about me. *only if you want consensual online E-hugs and kisses* also I don't think you were ever like mean or e---fensive to me or /w/e at least your not spamming my threads with silly youtubeman videos afaik.

For what it's worth it doesn't sound like your dad hates you, but he is eternally a fuckup and your mom is enabling him, and he needs more help than you or she can give, and going to prison will be just as likely a death sentence for him, or he'll be recruited into some hardcore gang that enables his drug problem and strips whatever is left of his humanity.

SOrry I don't have really good advice, just stick with the picture I posted, its the only advice anyone else has given me that has mattered in my brief time here. Maybe don't join any militaries, you seem innocent and sweet at heart. Stay that way if you can.

Originally Posted by Jibartik [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I tell my friends I have like 20 transgender friends thanks to these forums and I like, lord it over their democrat asses and use it to win arguments with them all the time.

Thanks gals!

Tell them most of them aren't democrats that will really rustle their jimmies.

Originally Posted by Cassawary [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Get a ho pregnant to satisfy ur biological imperative

Only then can you quest in peace ✌️

Please don't.

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Work hard at improving yourself, not necessarily for others although money is a gateway to services that you can use for self improvement, and gaining knowledge and health while you still can. The rest will come naturally. When you hit 40, if you make it that far, the inevitable decline will happen and you will suffer greatly if you are already obese, addicted to substances, and sick and confused by the simplest things in nature.

Where there is a will there is a way, and the time will come that you can express yourself in better, more meaningful ways. You may not bear fruit immediately, although some circumstances allow this, but there are many paths, and truths. Be disciplined, you can while still being spontaneous and exploring what life has to offer. Impulsivity has harmed me a lot. Be patient, it is a very strong virtue.