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Originally Posted by starkind
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Anyway I agree with new guy some im definitely not advising puppydoggedness... ur a big man w things to do. U know that drill [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]
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I agree that his proposed strat can be effective, but no matter the effectiveness, if it runs too different to who I naturally am, I won’t do it. For example, and this is an extreme example, but if women just gushed for aggressive and confrontational dudes, that’s just not me. I could fake it if my life depended on it. But I’d rather wait to get with someone more into me for who I naturally am, rather than hook up more often being someone I’m not
But like I said, I am kinda naturally aloof already, and I do recognize that has tended to help me with the opposite sex. I think both men and women like a bit of a challenge, and a clingy significant other is sort of a puzzle solved, a game beaten. That’s why a bit of hard to get does seem to take you places