No hope in groups 1-40?

[Boone]

Being a fairly new cleric (just lvl14) and playing with my partner (14 War), we have been grouping a lot. The biggest problem I see at these levels is her trying to get aggro off the twinked (whatever class). As the healer in the group, it certainly doesnt do much good to blow all my mana healing the (twinked Ranger, Bard, Wizard, etc.) on the first pull. Some nights, I've gotten to the point that if they are using twinked weapons and grab aggro every pull, they're on their own for healing :P