Who here has a Fetlife?

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SO the question to you Weekapaug:

What about the black fetishists, the non-consensual fetishes; how would that even fit in with the more typical fetishes?

[Weekapaug]

Correct. The vast majority of people into some kind of kink are into fairly innocuous things. Shit most vanillas would find boring, really. For most, it's about the dynamic of how it is practiced.

Many would be shocked to learn that kinksters also have an unbelieveable, shocking really, knack for being incredibly close minded and judgemental of other kinksters' kinks. So, yeah, I wouldn't suggest wearing that particular interest on your sleeve.

You also might want to get some professional help for that.

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Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Correct. The vast majority of people into some kind of kink are into fairly innocuous things. Shit most vanillas would find boring, really. For most, it's about the dynamic of how it is practiced.

Many would be shocked to learn that kinksters also have an unbelieveable, shocking really, knack for being incredibly close minded and judgemental of other kinksters' kinks. So, yeah, I wouldn't suggest wearing that particular interest on your sleeve.

You also might want to get some professional help for that.

Right.

So what you're saying is those are best left in the dark recesses of the internet, because they don't fit the formula that the more tame fetishists seek in company.

So it's whats the point in vanilla as a blanket term if given the examples I gave you really have zero place anywhere but the warped imaginations and shared delusion of those who obsess over them?

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I love fetish talks, it's like the philosophy of weird.

[abacab-winner]

So if you agree that vanilla is a silly blanket term that cannot apply to every individual fetishist or their interests, I will agree that I play librarian more than I play reality.

[Weekapaug]

Originally Posted by abacab-winner [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

SO the question to you Weekapaug:

What about the black fetishists, the non-consensual fetishes; how would that even fit in with the more typical fetishes?

Never heard of "black fetishist" but there are lots of people into "non-consentual consent." Not my thing so can't tell you much about it. There's a big universe of kink out there, I'm not an expert on all of it, or anything, just have a lot of real life experience with my particular area. Consent is a big deal for me so not something I've done.

Although, speaking of that, I'm reminded of something I read not to long ago....Don't know if this was real or just someone telling a story, but there was apparently something in the news from Australia or the UK....A couple of businessmen witness 5 men dragging a woman into the back of a truck and close the door on a city street in broad daylight. They get closer and hear what sounds like a rape in progress so they find some police officers, who open the truck door and start apprehending the attackers. The woman yells at them "You assholes! It took me 5 months to arrange this."

There are definately people into that. You wouldn't catch me near a situation like that, though.

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Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Never heard of "black fetishist" but there are lots of people into "non-consentual consent." Not my thing so can't tell you much about it. There's a big universe of kink out there, I'm not an expert on all of it, or anything, just have a lot of real life experience with my particular area. Consent is a big deal for me so not something I've done.

Although, speaking of that, I'm reminded of something I read not to long ago....Don't know if this was real or just someone telling a story, but there was apparently something in the news from Australia or the UK....A couple of businessmen witness 5 men dragging a woman into the back of a truck and close the door on a city street in broad daylight. They get closer and hear what sounds like a rape in progress so they find some police officers, who open the truck door and start apprehending the attackers. The woman yells at them "You assholes! It took me 5 months to arrange this."

There are definately people into that. You wouldn't catch me near a situation like that, though.

It's probably not true, but it's a legit example of what is tolerable in term of morality/legality even though she consented the State will see that as abduction. It's like the story of the cannibal couple who the wife consented to being eaten; she was consumed but charges were still filed for manslaughter even though it was consensual.

[Weekapaug]

Originally Posted by abacab-winner [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Right.

So what you're saying is those are best left in the dark recesses of the internet, because they don't fit the formula that the more tame fetishists seek in company.

So it's whats the point in vanilla as a blanket term if given the examples I gave you really have zero place anywhere but the warped imaginations and shared delusion of those who obsess over them?

Huh? I called you a vanilla at the start of the thread because you guys were talking about fucking.

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Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Huh? I called you a vanilla at the start of the thread because you guys were talking about fucking.

I like to ramble, could start about fucking could end with marijuana; I like to use a lot of stories, drive home points, apply things in first and third person; anything to keep the conversation going.

[Estolcles]

Originally Posted by Weekapaug [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Although, speaking of that, I'm reminded of something I read not to long ago....Don't know if this was real or just someone telling a story, but there was apparently something in the news from Australia or the UK....A couple of businessmen witness 5 men dragging a woman into the back of a truck and close the door on a city street in broad daylight. They get closer and hear what sounds like a rape in progress so they find some police officers, who open the truck door and start apprehending the attackers. The woman yells at them "You assholes! It took me 5 months to arrange this."

There are definately people into that. You wouldn't catch me near a situation like that, though.

Laws haven't caught up with human interests and ingenuity, alas.