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11-16-2020, 11:26 PM
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Too many people refusing to get married. Japan has some real issues that the USA better look at. The amount of unmarried and virgins is astounding given that there is tons of porn and anime sex stuff all over the place.
There is a book out there called “Your Brain on Porn”. Very good read for both the believer and atheist. It gets into a lot of the problems that porn can cause from a more secular standpoint. Some of the more interesting parts are when it talks about young men who are unable to get an erection with real life women, but have no problem getting one if they are looking at a screen. The author says that the brain is being rewired to believe that screen porn is actually sex, and real sex is something else. Sex is a strange thing. If you are getting it, it’s almost like you forget about it. If you aren’t getting it, you will go crazy. I’ve been married 10 years now, so it’s hard for me to remember what a sexless life is like, but occasionally I will go longer than I want to because the wife is tired from taking care of the kids. It’s at those times when I do start to go crazy, I can tell my brain is more focused on what I’m not getting. I’m saying a lot here, maybe some of it makes sense and some of it doesn’t. What I wish for all of you single guys out there is to find a nice girl to share the good times with. Man was not meant to be alone.
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11-16-2020, 11:34 PM
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Porn is definitely weird on your brain. I do have distant memories of pornographic "tetris effect" when I overused, which always made me pretty uncomfortable. I think non-animated hentai is legit art though, and can really animate the sexual imagination and benefit relationships.
Marrying a decent person for love is the most fulfilling thing a person can do I think. And building something together. It is really hard to marry under a certain maturity level, tho, when you are still trying to place yourself in the world and figure out what you want, and can't honestly assess the AIDS in other ppls' personalities as incompatibilities. I think unfortunately that there's a period of terrible heartache in for every young person, but if I could go back and tell myself something I would say "marry a kind person, don't look for an evil genius, don't marry a lazy cutie pie, check their back teeth for self-love, and earnestly build somethin 2gether with a person on your OVERALL wholesome spirit level instead of obsessing about iq or looks". If everyone would only settle down with a good person, and chuck the rest, maybe less peepole would be so sh!tty. Thank you for reading | ||
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11-16-2020, 11:43 PM
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Been like hardcore asexual now like a year. Like not even getting into a personal fantasy or anything sexual or erotic. Could be messing with me physiologically. Just zero urges tho.
@topgunben yeah, smart book. After a certain age that stuff is less dangerous. It probably messed me up some looking at it @ like 17 tho I think before transition that stuff all worked. It totally wasn't related to my current state. I think I just survived my own personal great filter events and matured some. Or maybe my body knows I can't reproduce so somehow it's stopped enforcing the drive. Fine by me. But probably extreme for most . | ||
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11-16-2020, 11:46 PM
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(to be honest i agree with him on gender politics all the way im pretty sure >_> i'm not a huge nonbinary advocate, being a biologist who recognizes the binary of sex hormones / developmental paths / resulting consciousness flavors. but why is it all his fans seem to be so mean to me about transition stuff? there's an uglier something in the JP gumbo besides his explicit speech, methinks) | |||
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11-16-2020, 11:50 PM
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When two extremely divergent and asynchronous approaches occasionally line up an cross over. That is a sign of significance. Peterson is in denial and suppressing something with those benzos. I take em for public safety and to cope self harm personally. I know for a fact that u got to be actively harming to need / want serious sedatives. | |||
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11-16-2020, 11:53 PM
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The sad part is, you don’t like it when people judge your abilities unfairly because you are trans, yet you judge this man unfairly because he has his own struggles. Pot calling the kettle black?
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11-17-2020, 12:03 AM
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11-17-2020, 12:08 AM
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You guys don't have that? It's little drive thru booths to get bad coffee from a 5 or 6 in they underwear
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