Resolution/Memory error issues

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So after getting the memory error when trying to log in on my laptop I looked for the eqclient.ini file. It does not exist. I then looked for and ran the optionseditor.exe to try to fix it there as prescribed by other threads. When I run this I get string not found on ever option in the editor. My laptop runs 1600x900 natively. I can drop my resolution to 1024x768 to get logged in past the memory error but dont have the options to go up in the game. Once in the game I am playing on a square resolution on a wide screen monitor. Its playable but annoying. Any suggestions? Thanks for your time.