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Old 09-06-2020, 04:00 PM
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Sounds like she needs a hobby and/or some friends. Just talk it out with her.

My wife isn't into gaming, but she's hot and is genuinely happy for me when I accomplish my goals, whether they are in life or in EQ.

It's not about the game, but you may need work on the fundamentals of your relationship. Supporting each others wants and needs is important to a healthy marriage as long as those wants and needs do not hurt anyone. Wish you luck.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:14 PM
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its not about video games, its about how he has no control over his life, if it wasnt eq it would be a hunting trip or time in his mancave

you hung up your nuts when you put a ring on a pigs finger and you are probably too much of a pussy to get out, god i hope i am never in the same boat as one of these getting fat 40 somethings with zero sex or fun in their lives.

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Old 09-06-2020, 04:15 PM
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Sounds like she needs a hobby and/or some friends. Just talk it out with her.

My wife isn't into gaming, but she's hot and is genuinely happy for me when I accomplish my goals, whether they are in life or in EQ.

It's not about the game, but you may need work on the fundamentals of your relationship. Supporting each others wants and needs is important to a healthy marriage as long as those wants and needs do not hurt anyone. Wish you luck.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:17 PM
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EQ Goals = zero money in the bank and of course

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You sound like a happy fella. I have lots of money.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:21 PM
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its not about video games, its about how he has no control over his life, if it wasnt eq it would be a hunting trip or time in his mancave

you hung up your nuts when you put a ring on a pigs finger and you are probably too much of a pussy to get out, god i hope i am never in the same boat as one of these getting fat 40 somethings with zero sex or fun in their lives.

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This dude has never had sex. Very sad, very angry. Go have sex, bud.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:29 PM
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Dont come to elf sim forum for marriage advice. With that said, let me give you some advice:

Women arent meant to be the boss. No matter how much they think they need to be the boss, they will always end up feeling less secure if they get to tell you what to do. Mothers tell their boys what to do, but one sign of a boy growing up to be a man is when he stops doing everything his mom tells him to do and goes out on his own and does his own thing. That doesnt mean you shouldnt listen or take their advice, but always remember that you are the boss, not her.

That doesnt mean your wife isnt right about some things. Maybe you have got to change some behaviors to placate her (you may never be able to fully satisfy her). BTW, nearly all women are crazy and neurotic. I seemed to have lucked out in the sense that my wife is about as easy going and understanding as any, but both of my sisters and mom are pure batshit crazy.

Sex is more important than you could imagine in marriage. It's the canary in the coal mine so-to-speak. If you are looking at porn you should stop. If she doesnt want to have sex, thats a huge problem that needs to be addressed immediately. If she has gained 2x her bodyweight since you were married, that is a major issue and she needs to lose the weight. If you would rather spend time on P99 then rolling around naked with her, you need to ask yourself why.

If you have kids, strongly consider not getting a divorce. Your life can turn into a living hell very quickly.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:43 PM
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My cousin passed away last year and his divorced wife gave one of the speeches at his funeral.

You can never truly divorce a woman who is mother to children with whom you have a paternal relationship.
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Old 09-06-2020, 04:43 PM
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If you love someone be there for them. No matter what.
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Old 09-06-2020, 05:02 PM
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If you love someone be there for them. No matter what.
this is terrible advice, if the person is not willing to put in the work in a relationship and meet you halfway and be a partnership they are not worthy of your love
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Old 09-06-2020, 05:08 PM
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this is terrible advice, if the person is not willing to put in the work in a relationship and meet you halfway and be a partnership they are not worthy of your love
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