random crashing while zoning, higher ms, blank server select!?!

[Thulack]

ok well since the weekend i have basically had all the following things happen to be on a regular basis:

Blank sever select(75% of the time)
Crash when logging into a toon from char select screen(probably 50% of the time)
Crash while zoning in many random zones(10-20% of the time)
double the ms ping. Usually it was 62-64ms and now is regularly 116-125ms(100% of the time)

Nothing new has been introduced into my system or changed. Ive rebooted everything and p99 and the p99 webiste which is running slower then normal too are the only things that are effected. No other websites are loading slower and my speedtest is still hitting 23mb/s DL 4.5mb/s UL.