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[Teako]

Double post because my edit F'd up and I'm grumpy now.

http://www.project1999.com/forums/showthread.php?t=2651 -

Step 1 - Installation
Install Everquest Titanium to a fresh directory. This directory must be separate from any live Everquest installs and dedicated to EQEmulator.
DO NOT PATCH EVERQUEST. If you patch your Titanium install you will need to delete it and start over.

Reading more thoroughly through the thread, it seems that your eqhost.txt file isn't set to the proper login.eqemulator.net:5998

You should never, ever be getting Sony's login servers. If you did, you done goofed somewhere. You either patched Titanium, and need to reinstall (Yes, you really do have to reinstall it. No, I know it's silly. Reinstall it.) or haven't set your host server properly for you to be able to log in to the Emu server list.