How does a Wizard get into dungeons?

[Ravager]

Originally Posted by tadkins [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Social anxiety mostly, I don't know how Mr. person-around-my-level-five-zones-away is going to react to me asking them if they want to group. Organizing a bunch of people, leading them somewhere, acknowledging them and keeping them happy...it does tend to cause me RL headaches. As silly as it might be to some, it really is hard for some people.

Well just like anything, it gets easier the more you do it. The worst that can happen is they say no. Besides, there's strong science out there that shows one of the most effective ways to avoid getting dementia in old age is to consistently challenge yourself to do things you'd like to do, but are afraid of doing.

[tadkins]

Originally Posted by Ravager [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Well just like anything, it gets easier the more you do it. The worst that can happen is they say no. Besides, there's strong science out there that shows one of the most effective ways to avoid getting dementia in old age is to consistently challenge yourself to do things you'd like to do, but are afraid of doing.

The worst they can say is no, followed by some day-ruining toxicity, and the attracted attention of someone that will potentially screw with you later. It has happened.

But yeah, I'm just not that strong of a person. I wish I was. I still remember badly the time I tried to lead a raid group in WoW. My head still kinda hurts thinking of how horribly that went, and just thinking of leading anything right now kind of makes my heart race.

[Ravager]

Originally Posted by tadkins [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

The worst they can say is no, followed by some day-ruining toxicity, and the attracted attention of someone that will potentially screw with you later. It has happened.

But yeah, I'm just not that strong of a person. I wish I was. I still remember badly the time I tried to lead a raid group in WoW. My head still kinda hurts thinking of how horribly that went, and just thinking of leading anything right now kind of makes my heart race.

I'll start a group with you this weekend. I've got a 24 necro.

[tadkins]

Originally Posted by Ravager [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

I'll start a group with you this weekend. I've got a 24 necro.

I really appreciate the offer but my wizard is only level 4 at the moment. xD

It's an attempt at wizard again (first try was an agnostic human that was the one I got to 24 early in Green, second try was a Sol Ro gnome, this third try is an Innoruuk dark elf) and I'm just seeing if I could get advice on the issues I know I'm going to face later, hehe.