What chance does a non-competitive player have on this server?

[Scalem]

Originally Posted by tadkins [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

They would never let someone like me in.

What does that even mean? Are you notorious and have been banned multiple times? Kicked from GG before? Or are you assuming because you are “casual” you’ll never be allowed in? Seems to me like you are setting your self up not to have a chance instead of trying. Why exactly won’t a guild like GG let you in?

[tadkins]

Originally Posted by Scalem [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

What does that even mean? Are you notorious and have been banned multiple times? Kicked from GG before? Or are you assuming because you are “casual” you’ll never be allowed in? Seems to me like you are setting your self up not to have a chance instead of trying. Why exactly won’t a guild like GG let you in?

The funny thing about the whole thing? I don't think I'd be considered casual. I probably put more hours into this game a day than most of you. Don't really have a lot going in life so this is about all I have to do. I just happen to play the game badly, both from a mechanical and social standpoint. I struggle with things most of you guys probably find super easy, including both killing mobs, playing my class, and making social connections. So folks are easily just able to walk all over me as a result. Like earlier in EW with organized groups AoEing the whole zone and basking in their glory while I struggle to get one kill every 10 minutes or so by myself.

Anyhow I don't think GG would allow me in for the same reasons Kingdom didn't. I'm utterly useless as a person to them. I don't have any friends to vouch for me in there or to serve as a reference, and what little I can do, they probably have 20 guys that can do it better.

[loramin]

Originally Posted by tadkins [You must be logged in to view images. Log in or Register.]

Anyhow I don't think GG would allow me in for the same reasons Kingdom didn't. I'm utterly useless as a person to them. I don't have any friends to vouch for me in there or to serve as a reference, and what little I can do, they probably have 20 guys that can do it better.

You still haven't said why you were rejected. All you've given is some vague nonsense about "probably my level". And sure, if you were level 35 applying to Kingdom ... that won't work. If that was the case, there's a simple fix: level up (and there are even leveling guilds that would happily help you).

But let's take a step back: (almost) everyone in this thread is trying to tell you that your version of reality doesn't line up with their's. Raiding guilds are desperate for more warm bodies: they 100% are not turning people away because they don't have friends!

The reason your version of reality is so different is also clear from your posts: your problem isn't EQ, and it's not guilds rejecting you ... it's:

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Go outside and get some exercise. The endorphins will help, and being around greenery will help. Call a friend up, watch a movie you love, and if your condition is more serious, talk to a doctor.

But take your mental health seriously: it impacts so much of your life, and if you're this depressed, I'm guessing a lack of a guild isn't the only side effect.